
If you're looking to get started in Youth Dawa for the first time then many hesitations & questions may probably daunt you, like; Do I need to be young? Do I need to look cool? but I can't speak like the youth? Do I quote Ayahs or Hadeeth? Or do I just say fear Allah to them? etc etc...well don't worry. Once you understand the key to 'change' you'll realise that these questions don't matter, and that age, looks, dress and speaking like the youth are not requirements. They only help if the youth will only talk to someone that looks like them...and so far in my 17 years of dawa I've not come across any, well certainly not in London where I'm based.
So what's the key to changing someones behaviour completely, more specifically from Jahilliyyah to Islam? More food? More wealth? More clothes? New environment? Or something else? Let me help you get to the answer. Here's a clue. What makes a non-muslim convert to Islam? What exactly 'changes' in him that leads to him declaring the Shahaada?
Or if you want to look at another example from the time of the Prophet (saw) then look at Umar Ibn Al-Khattab (ra) - one of the worst in Makkah before his Islam. What led him to change? And if you know his story you'll know that just hours before embracing Islam he was on way to killing the Prophet (saw). What changed in Umar such that this radical,complete U-turn happened? From wanting to kill the Prophet (saw) to wanting to die for the Prophet (saw)? if you haven't worked it out by now, don't worry, let's take a moment to think about it insha-Allah...
Actually it was he's thinking that changed, his views about the world changed, its origin (ie creator, Allah), it's purpose and destination (Afterlife, Jannah, Jahannum etc). All this changed in Umar (ra) when he read some verses of the Quran at his sisters place.
Thinking and views are in other words concepts (ideas a person is convinced of). So the key to 'change' is concepts. Aim to change someones concepts about this world and life and you'll see the change that follows in their behaviour, should Allah wish to guide them of course. Remember, no matter how good you are in dawa, victory always comes from Allah (swt)..The Muqallibul Quloob, The Turner of Hearts.
So how do I know 'which' concepts to change in someone?
Well now that you know 'concepts' are the key to changing someones thinking & behaviour the question is there are hundreds of concepts people carry that shapes their behaviour so how do you know which ones to target? Well there is one important point to note (and I'll try and keep it simple and keep out the wider aspects). There are different types of concepts (I'll discuss in detail in future articles) and just to highlight there are creedal ones to do with how the whole world started, what it's about and where it's heading, and their inter-relationships (I know, I'm already sounding Alien!), and then there are partial ones like specific concepts about food, clothing, friendship, family life, society & politics etc etc.
The question is which concepts do you target to create that full radical complete change, like for example Umar Ibn Al-khattab(ra) achieved? Do you target the 'creedal' ones or the 'partial' ones? If you're aim is to change all his behaviour and make them Islamic, do you address the individual concepts like 'what is Halal meat' and showing him how McDonalds burgers are not halal? Do you address his individual concepts about relationships and tell him about 'Zina' & freemixing and how it's Haram? Or is there something in common between all these Partial specific concepts that leads him to do all these actions?
If you think about it the common thing between all these concepts is that they are based on a deeper Creedal concept, which is that life is about fun, enjoyment, chasing your dreams, or making the most of it. Hence they are always chasing their goal of maximising what translates as pleasure to them be it career, wealth, fame, or more commonly these days girls, drugs, gangs and scams. So if you get him to change what he thinks life is about, from chasing pleasures to worshipping Allah, and he realises this, then naturally his goal in life changes to chasing Jannah and The Pleasure of Allah (swt).
My next article will go into explaining the creedal concept a bit more just so that it's clear why they are so important and fundamental to complete radical change.
[Written by Abu Rayyaan al-Hanafi]
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